(619) 234-3164 24 hour Domestic Violence Hotline
A 30-day residential program for women and children in need of immediate protection from domestic violence.
Becky's House Emergency Shelter provides a total of 47 beds for 11 families and 3 single women.
The shelter offers a safe, confidential, temporary home for women and children victims of domestic violence.
Participants are provided with:
- room and board
- case management
- information and referral
- legal assistance
- individual and group counseling
- housing and employment assistance
- and recreational activities
An on-site Shelter School, staffed by the San Diego Unified School District, is available for children 5-17.
The shelter also provides information and referrals for individuals calling into the YWCA hotline.
Eligibility: Emergency shelter accepts women and their children (boys and girls younger than 18 years).
Also accepts female minors experiencing domestic violence.
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User 2018-11-24 12:04:11
Hello there, I have some personal items like shampoo to donate as well as toys for the children. They are not brand new, so I am having trouble finding a place to donate them. Will you accept them? Thank you,
User 2019-03-31 13:08:48
I'm interested in learning about volunteer opportunities for the shelter. Thank you!
User 2018-12-01 10:34:22
Hello, I have clothes, shoes and women’s bathroom items I’d like to donate. Is there somewhere I can drop them off?
User 2020-06-18 20:15:51
My grandchildren are donating some of their quilts to help those in abusive situations. I have them washed and bagged. Where can I bring them?
User 2018-03-14 16:33:40
Would like to donate women's clothes to the shelter. Thanks,
User 2019-01-30 18:42:49
I would like to know more about volunteer opportunities with you shelter. Thank you.
User 2019-06-02 08:06:54
Ok. I cannot use the phone to talk right now this is the best I can do. I'm desperate. I can't find a place that can help me. Either there's no room a wait etc. Our situation has gotten to a point where if I can't find someone to help us I'm going to have to leave two little girls in this monsters care until I can get them back. I have a 10 year old who is afraid to even ask the man a question. The 3 yr old crawls under her blankets to hide while this man is literally foaming at the mouth. I've left at least 4 other time to have no choice but go back so my kids could be housed and able to get to school. I can't even begin my story here it's just to much and hard to even get it all told I end up spitting out what I remember most then gradually begin to remember like I'm in complete disbelief. I still today can't beleave it and I seen it w my own eyes. I seen this monster behave like an animal There's no mercy in him for any reason. My kids see me cry while he mentally and verbally attacks me. I sleep outside a lot there was times I thought I'd freeze by morning. He locks cars so I can't go there for shelter. I'm outside again and I'm so so sick. Think my colds going to my lungs.Im a stay at home mom of 10 yrs. I don't got any family and friend won't help because of him or he turns them against me or just can't fathom the things I am telling them he does. I just need help getting on my feet. And into housing. I'm in good shape I can work just got no idea where to go or how to start by myself. Thanks. Please forward if anyone can help me and my girls. 10 and 3. I'm 47 and just want peace for our lives
User 2019-06-11 15:07:07
The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides confidential services through their online chat service, available 24/7. Their advocates offer the same support as they would over the phone. You can reach their advocates by using their Live Chat feature or by phone at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY). We want you to know you are not alone. Advocates are available 24/7 for you and your daughters and we urge you to reach out when it’s safe.
User 2019-09-11 16:43:46
Looking for help no children with me now. No drugs or no drinking. I get SSI need help to get perminate housing PLEASE. I am disabled. And have suffered major traumas. No phone at this time. Just wifi
User 2019-09-11 20:58:11
Hello, evanhealy would like to donate 99 Rosehip Seed Oil Serums. How could we go about this?
User 2019-12-10 15:04:11
We have a crib, diapers and miscellaneous newborn baby items we would like to donate to a women's shelter. We are in the claremont area, near Balboa and Genessee. Can you kindly email me an address to take these to?
User 2019-12-31 11:18:26
I have some items I would like to donate. Where and how do I drop things off. I am in North county SD.
User 2020-01-02 23:31:07
I have suits and other clothes (professional) that I would like to donate. Where can I take them? Martha
User 2020-01-26 18:10:31
I have women’s clothes I’d like to donate. Where can I drop off? Thank you
User 2020-01-27 15:53:12
How does one go about donating to you? I see many have asked the same question but I see no replies.
User 2020-04-17 12:59:33
Hi. I am experiencing dangerous domestic violence. Yesterday was the first day I have been able to escape him in a couple of years. I thought he was finally going to kill me yesterday. I cannot call the police. I'm terrified of him and every time,which is weekly, he beats me up he blames it on me. I have called so many housing places but there isn't anywhere that has a bed. I'm 48 and for the last 3 weeks have been hopping around the county to various motels , some scarier than others, biker compounds, and hiding behind empty buildings trying to have him not find me but he always does. I think he has a tracker on my phone. I'm in north county but I just don't know what to do. I've always been a stay at home mom.With the corona virus everyone is so scared to be near people. I am a full time student (online) , respectful, loving and just don't know how I got myself into this situation!! I really need a place to live. I have some money and am looking for a room to rent where he will not suspect. I'm having difficulty because I have 2 cats and I am not willing to give them up because the feelings they relieve from my anxiety is beyond measure. Does anyone know of any private or church organizations that help? I can pay rent but I can't afford something on my own with deposits, etc.. If anyone has any ideas, I'm begging please share. Thank you
User 2020-06-06 09:44:51
I have unused baby food and baby bath products. Is there somewhere I can drop it off at?
User 2020-09-28 19:00:11
I have a baby bassinet and another travel bassinet. Could you use either of these at your shelter?
User 2020-10-14 14:03:25
I have lots of nice clothing still with tags on them. Where can I donate for women? Where can I volunteer? Thank you
User 2020-10-20 15:20:23
I would like to volunteer and help out. How can I help?
User 2021-01-25 09:43:21
I have two toddler beds with mattress I’d like to donate. How do I go about that. I read all the comments and others ask as well and no answer so that tells me this is very private and as it should be as it’s protecting abused women and children from bad men! It’s always men doing this majority of times. I should know I been through abuse too. Anyhow sorry went on to little rant but I feel and experienced what they have. But I would definitely love to donate them here. Please tell me how and if you can pick it up even better because it has the shelter remain private so no one knows where it is.
User 2021-01-27 12:18:01
Hi, I have some womens clothing and some used quilts to donate. If you'd like these items, please provide a location for drop off. Thank You
User 2021-02-10 17:14:56
Would like to donate Infant and women items. Please let me know the process. Thank you for what you guys are doing. I was in tears reading a comment above. Also let me know if you allow donated services. I’m a business consultant and would be honored to teach or guide any women wanting or needing skills to obtain a job/career or even start a business.
User 2021-07-14 18:14:50
I have some new and gently used women's clothes I would like to donate. Please let me know if there is a list of items you are accepting at this time. I have some teenage girls clothing as well. Thank you.